How often do you judge people in your daily life? My guess is that
if you really look closely, you would have to say “a lot.” Some of us
don’t even realize how often we judge others or even ourselves. Almost every moment is consumed with
it. We are so convinced that we are separate from everyone else and
because of it, we adopt judgment as a means to make ourselves right.
When someone does something differently from us, we tend to judge it as
wrong because otherwise we think it makes us wrong. None of that is
true however. We are not separate. We are all one. We are not wrong if
someone else is right. There are many ways to accomplish one thing, and
who is to say that your way is more right than someone else’s.
Judgment is one of the greatest problems in our world as far as I am
concerned. And I am guilty of doing it too! It is not easy to avoid
judging others and it is very difficult to not judge yourself. Our egos
want us to judge because it keeps up the illusion of separateness,
which is what the ego thrives on. The problem is that when you judge,
you stifle growth. All we are here to do on this planet is to grow.
This is an earth school. We are not here to be perfect. We are here to
grow into the soul that we are. Why do we judge others and ourselves
when we are not coming across as “perfect?” That only holds that person
or yourself back from growing and being all that they can be.
The simplest judgment can have lasting effects on people. Don’t do it!
When you find yourself judging others, tell yourself to be a bigger
person and leave that person be. When you begin to judge others less,
you will find that you begin to no longer fear others will judge you.
And that sets you free as far as fear is concerned because when you no
longer fear what others think, you will feel free to do what you want
without the fear that is usually attached to it.
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helping people move from just enduring life to being exhilarated by
life! She uses a holistic approach and assists her clients in balancing
their mind, body, & soul, bringing wholeness into everything they
do. Her clients learn to release their personal power, create true
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They are then able to set and reach goals that are a true expression of
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One thing that we all get caught up in is in the “how.” How are we going to accomplish that goal? How can we possibly change our situation, which feels so hopeless?
I would like to challenge you to release the “how.” When you are worried about the “how,” changing your life will be difficult and overwhelming.
Keep your focus on the “why.” Why do you want what you want?
By keeping your focus on the “why,” you tap into the positive
energies and you will feel uplifted and excited. You don’t have to know
how it will all play out. Just focus on why you want your goal and how
you will feel when you achieve it. Then, be open and allow the Universe
to bring to you what you need to transform your life.
It will happen when you let the “how” go and consciously be aware of
new insights, “coincidences” and opportunities that present themselves
to you. As you do that, you will know intuitively how to proceed and
you won’t be crippled with fear. That is how you stay in the flow so
that you can transform your life with ease and joy, and it will be so
fun to see how the journey unfolds. Back To www.lifecoachfaith.com
Do you have an inner calling to do
something out of your comfort zone? Do you tell yourself not to bother
because its too scary to make the changes? Is fear getting in your way?
Most of us will answer yes to that question because we all have fears
that are holding us back from being who we really want to be.
But let me ask you, how does it feel to let that fear define who you
are? In order to be fulfilled, we all have fears that we need to push
through. Think about all of the great inspirational stories you hear
about people transforming their lives. It always involves working
through their fears, and that is what makes the story so great and so
inspirational. Without the fear, it would be a dull and boring story.
Do you want your life to be a dull and boring story? Do you want to
sit by watching your dreams pass you by because you don’t want to face
your fears? I doubt it! You can transform your life simply by deciding
that your fears don’t define you; they only hold you back from being you. Decide
that your dreams will define you instead! Be willing to step out of
your comfort zone and face your fears. That is when you will feel alive
and that is when your life will be an exciting, inspirational journey.
Do you need a partner to help you work through your fears? You never
have to do it on your own - call or email me today for a risk free life
coaching session, so that you can start living the life you crave.